A warm hello from Oribel

Hello Friends,

Thank you for visiting my blog. If you are looking for inspiration and empowerment you’ve come to the right place.

Apart from articles I've written based on my own personal experiences I have included suggested affirmations, intentions, prayers, visualizations, meditations, ideologies and a whole lot more. I have personally benefited from them - I gained more self-confidence, learned about self-love, self-acceptance and self-respect, overcoming fears created by years of conditionings, tackled self-doubt, self-worth and self-esteem issues. And I’m learning to trust myself more and more each day.

I invite you to open heart and empty your mind and pick any subject that you are drawn to. Take only the information that resonates with you and leave the rest behind as they are here for others. You see, each of us have different lessons to learn in this life. Much of which is to overcome different types of fears - fear of being lonely, fear of rejection, fear of failure, well you're getting the picture. And, hence, we need different tools in our lives as we seek to discover ourselves and to turn our challenges into life lessons. With self-knowledge comes true power.

And always know that you have much to give the world by just being you....the authentic you that is. And also remember that when you reach a higher truth be prepared to let go of older ones that no longer serve you. That's how we evolve and expand.

Happy journeys,
Oribel

Monday, January 19, 2009

One Prayer

This is a song to heal hurting hearts. It's called One Prayer.

Singer songwriter Karl Anthony wrote the One Prayer to offer an alternative to revenge. The sweet child in this video is Jeanne & Karl’s God child, Shivani.

I was moved when I heard it the first time and was able to locate the lyrics to the song which I've placed it directly below the video. May we offer a prayer to people who hate and may the hatred transmute to tolerance, then understanding and then acceptance.

I always believe that we hate what we fear what we don't understand.
So I offer a prayer - May all be loved, may all be blessed, may all feel peace.

One Prayer


Lyrics to One Prayer by Karl Anthony

If I had one prayer, I'd pray for people who hate
Maybe I'm out of my mind ...or deep in my faith
A man grows old ...when his soul's in pain
Only love can loosen that chain

But if I offer you grace, will it cause any change
And do I appear weak, if I calm my rage
I think of revenge, but will I become
The thing I despise, when a heart goes numb

I'll say a prayer, hoping it finds ...people who hate
I send it now, to heal the hearts ...of people who hate


If only one song ...could silence hate
And end all the war ...before its too late
If a cold mind ...could begin to feel
Then the fear in our world ...has a chance to heal

I'll say a prayer, knowing it finds ...people who hate
I send it now, to heal the hearts ...of people who hate
......pray for people who hate

All of our thoughts ...can set the stage
For the power of love ...is larger than rage
When we take revenge ...we will become
The hate we despise ...as our soul goes numb

I have One Prayer ...for the world to hear
It's a cry for mercy ...the last of our tears
Let hate dissolve ... let the past reveal
That love has shown us what is real

Prayer: Angels above, quiet the pain ...in people who hate

I'm sending One Prayer, to heal the hearts ...in people who hate
One prayer.....Pray!

Prayer: May all be loved, may all be blessed, may all feel peace....pray for people who hate

I’m sending Love, to people who hate
I must be out of my mind ...or deep in my faith

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Somewhere Over The Rainbow

This is one of my all time favourite songs. In fact two of my favourite songs combined into one - What a Wonderful World (Louise Armstrong) and Somewhere Over the Rainbow. It's originally sung by Israel Kamakawiwo Ole. I found Jason Castro's version on YouTube and I'm sharing this with you here.

I can't help smiling and swaying my body whenever I sing this beautiful song. It's a song of gratitude for the wonderful gifts from Mother Nature. It's also about friendship and babies. It's also about daring to dream. This song never fails to uplift me. And it is also a reminder for us to savour each moment when we are in nature - walk in awe as you pass by magnificent trees with their canopy of leaves, look up into the blue sky with puffy white clouds that float by, look for the sun that plays hide and seek, feel the grass under your bare feet, take in the beauty of the flowers that bloom so bravely. Nature is not timid. Nature is vibrant, alive and abundant. That's the kind of life I am creating for myself.

I invite you to watch this music video from YouTube and you'll see and hear what I mean.

ENJOY and have a PERFECT DAY! Love, Oribel

Friday, January 16, 2009

I Hope You Dance

This is one song I enjoy listening to because of it's motivational message.
The original singer is Lee Ann Womack. I got this video off YouTube. The great part is that you can sing along with the video with the lyrics provided.

I dedicate this song to you. I REALLY hope you DANCE! Love, Oribel

Click on the play button and SING and DANCE:

10 Principles to Wonderful Health

I was privileged to attend a workshop on self-healing with Inna Segal about a year ago. Inna has written a couple of books relating to healing, namely The Secret Language of Your Body. She is an advocate for self-healing and talking and listening to your body.

Can you talk to your body? Absolutely. And listen to it? Absolutely. How? Well, you basically verbalize to your cells, “Dear body, I felt a sharp pain right here. Tell me what it is I need to know?” And you lightly touch the area where the pain is. Then you wait and you listen. And your body talks to you through your intuition. It’s that inner voice or inner wisdom as some people call it.

Our body has the intelligence to reverse illnesses and heal itself. Inna calls it the Divine Healing Intelligence.

And I quote below Inna’s ten principles to wonderful health which is taken from her book The Secret Language of Your Body.

Principle 1- MAKE YOUR HEALTH A PRIORITY
In order to heal, it is necessary to commit to making your health a priority. This means believing you are a valuable being, who deserves brilliant health and wellbeing. Making your health a priority also gives you an opportunity to examine your thinking. Are you open minded and willing to explore the root causes of your dis-ease or discomfort, and work on releasing the negativity which may have contributed to your condition? Or is your definition of healing taking a pill and perhaps shutting your body down? True healing means listening to the messages your body is trying to give you, then making changes which create ease rather than dis-ease, and flow rather than stuckness in your body and your life.

Principle 2 - FEEL YOUR EMOTIONS
Feel your emotions rather than keeping them buried. Many people spend much of their time thinking rather than feeling, because they find the experience of feeling uncomfortable. When unwelcome feelings come up they try to shut them down by being distracted, watching TV, eating junk food, talking on the phone, reading a book, listening to music, smoking, taking drugs, etc. However, your feelings hold the key to your wellbeing. They tell you what is honouring you and what is not, if your life is flowing the way it's meant to or if you are moving in the wrong direction. Your feelings give you the opportunity to expand, purify pain, create your ideal weight, change and break down the armour which prevents you experiencing health, peace and joy.

Principle 3 - BREATHE CONSCIOUSLY
Breathe consciously. Many people breathe shallowly, thus keeping the body tight, stagnant and working harder. When you breathe slowly, deeply and consciously you can feel your body, tune into your intuition, calm your mind, relax, and help purify the blood. You also experience an increase in energy and wellbeing as the breath circulates energy around your body.

Principle 4 - EAT HEALTHILY AND CONSCIOUSLY
Eat healthily and consciously. Most people know what constitutes a healthy diet. Yet in our stressed and busy lives, it is easy to go for fast food, which usually contains lots of fat, sugar, caffeine and unhealthy chemicals. Often people eat quickly, on the go, without being consciously aware of what they are eating, or truly tasting and enjoying their food. This leads them to eat more than what their body requires. Being healthy means eating healthy food which nourishes your body, giving you energy, vitality and wellbeing. Taking time to create healthy food, that you eat slowly and chew consciously gives your body the opportunity to heal and regenerate quickly and easily.

PRINCIPLE 5 - EXERCISE
Move your body. Many people complain about feeling stagnant, depressed, uninspired and overweight. However, each person has the ability to create an exercise program which can help them lose or maintain the weight they desire and become strong, healthy, lean and fit. Regular exercise can help you feel better about yourself, enjoy your body, have more energy, detoxify and heal. Plan an exercise program you will enjoy, such as walking, swimming, going to the gym, dancing, participating in yoga, martial arts, Tai Chi etc.

PRINCIPLE 6 - LISTEN TO YOUR BODY
Listen to your body. Recognize when you need to rest, play, have fun and work. What are your cycles? When are you at your best? What can you do to make your life more productive? When people don't listen to their bodies is when stress, tension, fear, overwhelm, anxiety and dis-ease set in. Take a few minutes' break every couple of hours. Stretching, deep breathing or even a short meditation can make the difference between feeling tired, stagnant and stressed or healthy, creative and relaxed.

Principle 7 - BE CREATIVE
Creativity allows you to relax, have fun and explore. It gives you opportunities to learn, expand and discover your talents. When people are creative they are often more inspired, imaginative and resourceful. Fun and creativity prolongs your life, so find something that you can participate in and create.

Principle 8 - ADD MORE COLOURS
Add more colour to your life. Colours can make people feel heavy, depressed and fatigued or light, vibrant and joyful. Become aware of what colours make you feel great and what qualities those colours have. Then add these colours to your life. For example, this could mean painting your walls green because green makes you feel relaxed and tranquil. Or wear a bright orange dress or a shirt, or bring more flowers into your home. Whatever it is, make it colourful.

Principle 9 - MAKE GRATITUDE YOUR ATTITUDE
Make gratitude your attitude. Focus on all the great things you have in your life, instead of thinking about what you don't have and complaining about your lack and limitation. Remember, what you are grateful for grows, what you don't appreciate is taken away from you.

Principle 10 - MAKE TIME FOR LAUGHTER
Make laughter a priority. For a long time people believed that they needed a reason to laugh. However, the benefits of laughter are so great that laughing for no reason has become a motto of countless people all over the world who participate in laughter clubs. There is even a laughter yoga, which teaches specific laughter exercises. Even if you don't do laughter yoga, looking at life from a humorous angle allows you to let go of stress quicker and to heal faster.

And Inna further advised that if you take 15 minutes a day to listen to your body and meditate you can make the difference between sickness and health. Just imagine – if you improve your health and well-being at the rate of 2% a day, by the year end you’d see more than 100% improvement.

Well, I took the challenge last year. I was close to weighing 60 kg in September and I wasn’t happy with the image of myself in the mirror and I felt sluggish. So I had a talk with my body and asked what can I do to improve my overall well-being. I wasn’t prepared for the answer that came back. I needed to eat healthy wholesome food, exercise regularly, think more positively and have more fun….I’ve been taking life too seriously lately.

Hmmmm. Okay, Doctor Divine. Ill take on this new project. And I called it Project Oribel. I signed up for a 12-week program of hatha yoga and body sculpture at the neighbourhood sports club. Because of my new belief i.e. all life forms come from the same Source, I decided that I was ready to go vegetarian. And I was both mentally and emotionally prepared for this change. And I built myself up from being a pescetarian first (a vegetarian who consumes fish as well). After 3 weeks I switched to being 100% vegetarian.

And I’m happy to let you know that Project Oribel was/is a resounding success. I’ve lost at least 5kgs. The 12-week exercise program has just ended. And I need to continue with my exercise regime that has worked so well for me. And now I’m happier and lighter being a vegetarian. I took the opportunity to discover vegetarian and vegan restaurants around town. And I now write food reviews and take photographs of my meals to upload on to happycow.com. I go cycling once a week and watch a funny video every now and then. And I sing and dance to Bryan Adam’s Summer of ’69. I’m also learning to cook vegetarian for myself. I call this intuitive cooking i.e. whatever vegetable I can find in the fridge appears in the recipe. You see, I made the transition into an exciting and joyful experience. This made a difference. I followed my divine doctor’s orders. And it worked.

Don't take my word for it. Take up the challenge and witness it for yourself. Remember that at the end of the exercise YOU are the benefactor. How cool is that?

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Affirmation - Focus and Clarity

I have been struggling with creating just the perfect profile for myself as an Angelic Reiki practitioner. Just before Christmas last year I signed up with whattherapy.com to place an ad on its website. I was anxious to get started. And on Boxing Day, I spent half an hour on writing my profile and a brief synopsis of Angelic Reiki. And I was not entirely satisfied with it. I checked other sites on Angelic Reiki and I checked the profiles of other practitioners. I still could not decide on the final text. So I gave up and promised myself I’ll try again before the New Year.

This happened twice more. I was frustrated that I took longer than expected to finalize my profile for the website. At times like this I realize that I needed clarity. Without clarity, there is confusion. I basically had too much information and didn’t know what was considered important and key information to include in my profile.

Then I decided on divine intervention. I ask my angels to show me an affirmation that I could use to help me with this block. I picked a book from my shelf and turn to a page. And here’s what I found:
“I am able to clearly focus and concentrate at will,
for my mind is sharp and alert.
I am a brilliant thinker eternally linked to
the most powerful computer network of all: God’s mind.”
This is it. The very next morning, I said this affirmation. That afternoon I decided to continue with my ‘healer profile’ project and within twenty minutes it was finalized. I clicked on the ‘submit’ button and cried “Hooray!” The affirmation worked!

Thank you to my angels. :o)

Procrastination, or is it?

I decided to begin my spiritual work as a healer. And I was drawn to Reiki. This was back in May 2008. At that time I was looking around for a good teacher and I was highly recommended to a Master Parag. I’ve visited his website and liked what I saw and I liked what one of his previous students had to say about Master Parag and his passion for Reiki.

But the thing was, each month Master Parag sent a mass mail advising his subscribers of the next Reiki course, I kept putting off signing up for his workshop. This happened for six consecutive months. I thought to myself, why do I keep procrastinating? I needed to signed up for a class sooner rather than later otherwise I will just keep delaying my spiritual work, which is my calling.

Then in early October 2008, I received the quarterly newsletter from Basic Essence. I flipped through the pages and ‘lo and behold, they are conducting Angelic Reiki workshops in November. YES, this is it! This is what I’ve been waiting for. You see, I’m passionate about angels and I talk to my angels all the time. And I have found that Angelic Reiki is the missing piece of the jigsaw to my life connecting my intended work with people who have trouble awakening to their true essence that is their own divinity.

I realized that I wasn’t procrastinating. I was merely being guided by Spirit to wait for the appropriate healing modality that's for my highest good and that is Angelic Reiki. Before then, I didn’t know there was such a modality. So you see, I had mistaken divine timing for procrastination. Things are never what they appear to be.

Ever since that episode I looked at delays as two possibilities: (1) it’s not meant to be; (2) something better is on its way. And then I remembered that sometime back I made an intention that I’m always guided, guarded and protected by my angels. And I trust that I was guided to wait for the Angelic Reiki workshop. And I am so glad I did.

Saturday, January 10, 2009

The Interview with God



This is a short movie clip created around a poem, author unknown. And I guarantee that you will love it. Just click on the play button.

This video was taken from GodTube website. The original video is from The Interview with God website, but unfortunately the embed code does not seem to work well on my blog.

Please view the video before you continue reading this article.

Every once in a while great poems like the one above will stop you in your tracks and make you ponder on the simple truths in life. But it is us who make our lives difficult and sometimes creating dramas for ourselves and others.

When I first viewed the movie presentation version I was stricken by its honesty and simplicity. When I viewed it a second time, I began to look at every aspect of my life. Yes, I had only learned most of these life’s lessons at the latter part of my life…a couple of years shy of 50.

I was unhappy working as a project manager in the last couple of years. I no longer found it fulfilling and felt that I was missing out on life itself whilst I worked long hours to meet the company’s bottom line in the hope of being promoted to Vice President. So I quit. And that was when I started to focus on the most important person in my life, Myself. And I discovered a most precious gem which I had forgotten to polish and care for because I was living what I thought was a perfect life.

With an abundance of time on my hands, I began exploring the activities that bring joy to my life - spending time with nature, cycling, having picnics, watching clouds, playing on a swing, feeding turtles and swans at a public park, watching sunsets at the beach and visited parks and nature reserves in far flung places. All of which I would not be doing if I hadn’t quit my corporate job.

I no longer have to worry about meeting project datelines, preparing minutes after client calls, updating reports after reports. Phew, what a relief to do away with worries and anxieties that really have no impact on my private and personal life…which is far more important than my working life. I had time on my hands for self-care. I gave myself permission to live moment to moment. And I am a far more happier person now.

And I’ve also come to realize that I don’t need to shop for clothes or stuff anymore. I only go shopping for essentials these days.

And I’m learning to express myself more these days without fearing how others might react. Creating a blog and posting articles and sharing my experiences with like-minded people have helped me to experience this. And I hope that what I am sharing would help inspire others to appreciate their own uniqueness and begin to open up to sharing their experiences with others as well
One thing I'm beginning to do is to give others the space to experience the reality they have created for themselves. This has helped me alot to stop judging others. You see, there is no 'right' or 'wrong', just experiences. As I allow others to be who they are, they allow me to be who I am. That is true compassion.

I’ve also come to realize that in the past I was 'guilty' of opening profound wounds in others with my careless words. And I’m learning to forgive myself and I know that it is never too late to make the necessary adjustments in my life to stay on track and to be living a more authentic life. Yes, it is indeed time to make a life review at the start of the year.

And when you too begin exploring this, please remember to be gentle with yourself, always and in all ways. Because we are human too. :o)